\"Love should've brought you home last night.\"
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/love-shouldve-brought-you-home-last-night","title":"Love Should've Brought You Home Last Night","summary":"\"Love should've brought you home last night.\"","date_modified":"2026-06-02T03:46:19Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-violinist","html_content":"Life rarely works out the way we planned it.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-violinist","title":"The Violinist","summary":"Life rarely works out the way we planned it.","date_modified":"2026-06-02T03:33:47Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/stop-trying-to-make-sense-of-what-doesnt-make-sense","html_content":"One of the most exhausting things you can do is waste your time trying to make sense out of a situation that doesn't make sense.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/stop-trying-to-make-sense-of-what-doesnt-make-sense","title":"Stop Trying to Make Sense of What Doesn't Make Sense","summary":"One of the most exhausting things you can do is waste your time trying to make sense out of a situation that doesn't make sense.","date_modified":"2026-06-02T00:55:05Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/eventually-its-gonna-be-your-turn","html_content":"It is naïve at best and narcissistic at worst to believe that a person will fuck over everybody else...
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/eventually-its-gonna-be-your-turn","title":"Eventually, It's Gonna Be Your Turn","summary":"It is naïve at best and narcissistic at worst to believe that a person will fuck over everybody else...","date_modified":"2026-06-02T00:40:24Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/youre-excusing-whats-killing-you","html_content":"One of the most dangerous things a person can do is continuously excuse the very behavior that is destroying their peace.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/youre-excusing-whats-killing-you","title":"You're Excusing What's Killing You","summary":"One of the most dangerous things a person can do is continuously excuse the very behavior that is destroying their peace.","date_modified":"2026-06-02T00:15:23Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/dont-let-anger-cost-you-your-progress","html_content":"It's okay to get angry.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/dont-let-anger-cost-you-your-progress","title":"Don't Let Anger Cost You Your Progress","summary":"It's okay to get angry.","date_modified":"2026-05-29T02:40:43Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/i-fell-in-love-with-the-devil","html_content":"The devil comes in many forms.\nNot always through darkness, violence, or obvious evil.\nSometimes the devil appears wrapped in comfort, beauty, desire, attachment, and emotional dependency.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/i-fell-in-love-with-the-devil","title":"I Fell in Love With the Devil","summary":"The devil comes in many forms.\nNot always through darkness, violence, or obvious evil.\nSometimes the devil appears wrapped in comfort, beauty, desire, attachment, and emotional dependency.","date_modified":"2026-05-28T04:09:33Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/worse-than-never-having-it","html_content":"Sometimes life is cruel enough to give you something you were never meant to keep.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/worse-than-never-having-it","title":"Worse Than Never Having It","summary":"Sometimes life is cruel enough to give you something you were never meant to keep.","date_modified":"2026-05-28T03:56:17Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/carved-into-you","html_content":"A person can walk into your life for a short season and still leave fingerprints on your spirit for decades.\nNot because of what they owned.\nNot because of how they looked.\nBut because of how they made your soul feel whi...
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/carved-into-you","title":" Carved Into You","summary":"A person can walk into your life for a short season and still leave fingerprints on your spirit for decades.\nNot because of what they owned.\nNot because of how they looked.\nBut because of how they made your soul feel whi...","date_modified":"2026-05-28T03:49:20Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/two-different-loves","html_content":"I believe something people are afraid to admit is that a person can genuinely fall in love with two people at the same time… just in completely different ways.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/two-different-loves","title":"Two Different Loves","summary":"I believe something people are afraid to admit is that a person can genuinely fall in love with two people at the same time… just in completely different ways.","date_modified":"2026-05-27T23:48:31Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-price-of-betrayal","html_content":"You do not negotiate the price of betrayal without intention.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-price-of-betrayal","title":"The Price of Betrayal ","summary":"You do not negotiate the price of betrayal without intention.","date_modified":"2026-05-27T22:51:27Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/she-was-just-too-commercial","html_content":"She was too well put together.\nToo polished.\nToo rehearsed.\nToo beautiful in a way that felt manufactured instead of felt.\nEverything looked right…\nbut nothing felt real.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/she-was-just-too-commercial","title":"She Was just too Commercial","summary":"She was too well put together.\nToo polished.\nToo rehearsed.\nToo beautiful in a way that felt manufactured instead of felt.\nEverything looked right…\nbut nothing felt real.","date_modified":"2026-05-27T01:39:09Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-lie-was-just-their-excuse","html_content":"Anybody who can easily believe lies about you without ever hearing your side was already searching for a reason to stand against you.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-lie-was-just-their-excuse","title":"The Lie Was Just Their Excuse","summary":"Anybody who can easily believe lies about you without ever hearing your side was already searching for a reason to stand against you.","date_modified":"2026-05-27T01:25:12Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-cost-of-being-the-strong-one","html_content":"Sometimes the strongest people are not strong because life has been easy.\nThey are strong because they never had the luxury of falling apart.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-cost-of-being-the-strong-one","title":"The Cost of Being the Strong One","summary":"Sometimes the strongest people are not strong because life has been easy.\nThey are strong because they never had the luxury of falling apart.","date_modified":"2026-05-27T00:57:52Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/emotional-transience","html_content":"There is an invisible, undiagnosed epidemic affecting a large number of women in this world.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/emotional-transience","title":"Emotional Transience","summary":"There is an invisible, undiagnosed epidemic affecting a large number of women in this world.","date_modified":"2026-05-24T01:39:39Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/learning-how-to-receive","html_content":"Sometimes when a person has spent their entire life surviving without proper support,\nthey do not know how to properly receive love when it finally arrives.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/learning-how-to-receive","title":"Learning How to Receive","summary":"Sometimes when a person has spent their entire life surviving without proper support,\nthey do not know how to properly receive love when it finally arrives.","date_modified":"2026-05-24T00:59:32Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/lukewarm","html_content":"Luke 4:1 says:
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/lukewarm","title":"Lukewarm","summary":"Luke 4:1 says:","date_modified":"2026-05-24T00:36:40Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/pain-changes-people","html_content":"Pain changes people.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/pain-changes-people","title":"Pain Changes People","summary":"Pain changes people.","date_modified":"2026-05-24T00:28:37Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/what-does-your-faith-cost","html_content":"Question:
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/what-does-your-faith-cost","title":"What Does Your Faith Cost?","summary":"Question:","date_modified":"2026-05-24T00:28:11Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/emotional-reactivity","html_content":"Emotional reactivity is when a person becomes so overwhelmed by emotion that they lose the ability to respond rationally.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/emotional-reactivity","title":"Emotional Reactivity","summary":"Emotional reactivity is when a person becomes so overwhelmed by emotion that they lose the ability to respond rationally.","date_modified":"2026-05-22T03:50:20Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/i-refuse-to-let-them-change-my-perception-of-him","html_content":"I refuse to let them change my perception of Him.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/i-refuse-to-let-them-change-my-perception-of-him","title":"I Refuse to Let Them Change My Perception of Him","summary":"I refuse to let them change my perception of Him.","date_modified":"2026-05-22T03:43:01Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/what-you-call-it-matters","html_content":"What you call it will determine how you fight it.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/what-you-call-it-matters","title":"What You Call It Matters","summary":"What you call it will determine how you fight it.","date_modified":"2026-05-22T03:08:23Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-blueprint-before-the-blessing","html_content":"SYFM Reflection
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-blueprint-before-the-blessing","title":"The Blueprint Before the Blessing","summary":"SYFM Reflection","date_modified":"2026-05-22T03:08:00Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-partner-you-see-is-the-partner-you-get","html_content":"“The partner you see is the partner you get.”
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-partner-you-see-is-the-partner-you-get","title":"The Partner You See Is the Partner You Get","summary":"“The partner you see is the partner you get.”","date_modified":"2026-05-22T02:33:09Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/envy-abandonment-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","html_content":"Hurt people hurt people…\nbut nobody really talks about what it does to a man when the people he trusted become the very thing that wounds him.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/envy-abandonment-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","title":"Envy & Abandonment — An SYFM Reflection","summary":"Hurt people hurt people…\nbut nobody really talks about what it does to a man when the people he trusted become the very thing that wounds him.","date_modified":"2026-05-18T21:31:07Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/is-it-possible-to-love-someone-and-hate-the-person-they%E2%80%99ve-become","html_content":"Yes.\nAnd that is one of the most painful conflicts a heart can experience.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/is-it-possible-to-love-someone-and-hate-the-person-they%E2%80%99ve-become","title":"Is It Possible to Love Someone and Hate the Person They’ve Become","summary":"Yes.\nAnd that is one of the most painful conflicts a heart can experience.","date_modified":"2026-05-18T21:30:48Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/food-for-thought-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","html_content":"Some people\nare beautifully wrapped boxes of shit.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/food-for-thought-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","title":"Food for Thought — An SYFM Reflection","summary":"Some people\nare beautifully wrapped boxes of shit.","date_modified":"2026-05-18T20:47:57Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/a-woman-never-forgets-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","html_content":"A woman never forgets\nhow a man treated her\nduring the time\nshe needed his support the most.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/a-woman-never-forgets-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","title":"A Woman Never Forgets — An SYFM Reflection","summary":"A woman never forgets\nhow a man treated her\nduring the time\nshe needed his support the most.","date_modified":"2026-05-18T20:42:46Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/%E2%80%9Cif-she-doesn%E2%80%99t-go-psycho-she-doesn%E2%80%99t-love-you%E2%80%9D","html_content":"Some of y’all really believe:
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/%E2%80%9Cif-she-doesn%E2%80%99t-go-psycho-she-doesn%E2%80%99t-love-you%E2%80%9D","title":"“If She Doesn’t Go Psycho, She Doesn’t Love You”","summary":"Some of y’all really believe:","date_modified":"2026-05-18T20:34:18Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/hijacked-discernment-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","html_content":"When a person doesn’t truly understand\nenergy, vibration, frequency, or emotional awareness…\nthey will eventually call every feeling “discernment.”
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/hijacked-discernment-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","title":"Hijacked Discernment — An SYFM Reflection","summary":"When a person doesn’t truly understand\nenergy, vibration, frequency, or emotional awareness…\nthey will eventually call every feeling “discernment.”","date_modified":"2026-05-18T20:22:34Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/how-did-i-ever-give-someone-the-power-to-fuck-me-up-so-bad","html_content":"At some point,\nmany of us sit alone with ourselves\nand ask a difficult question:
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/how-did-i-ever-give-someone-the-power-to-fuck-me-up-so-bad","title":"How Did I Ever Give Someone the Power to Fuck Me Up So Bad? ","summary":"At some point,\nmany of us sit alone with ourselves\nand ask a difficult question:","date_modified":"2026-05-18T20:19:36Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/that-wasn%E2%80%99t-love-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","html_content":"You didn’t love them.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/that-wasn%E2%80%99t-love-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","title":"That Wasn’t Love — An SYFM Reflection","summary":"You didn’t love them.","date_modified":"2026-05-18T19:58:11Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/feelings-can-mislead-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","html_content":"Some of us trust our feelings\nfar more than we should…
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/feelings-can-mislead-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","title":"Feelings Can Mislead — An SYFM Reflection","summary":"Some of us trust our feelings\nfar more than we should…","date_modified":"2026-05-18T19:57:02Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/you-will-still-encounter-the-unexpected-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","html_content":"No matter how prayerful,\nprepared,\nor perceptive you are…
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/you-will-still-encounter-the-unexpected-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","title":"You Will Still Encounter the Unexpected — An SYFM Reflection","summary":"No matter how prayerful,\nprepared,\nor perceptive you are…","date_modified":"2026-05-18T18:28:13Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/beauty-of-my-beast","html_content":"Peeping through the acquaintance\nas your loving friend,\nI arrived not searching for temporary passion\nbut a loving end.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/beauty-of-my-beast","title":"Beauty of my Beast","summary":"Peeping through the acquaintance\nas your loving friend,\nI arrived not searching for temporary passion\nbut a loving end.","date_modified":"2026-05-14T02:50:40Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-diamond-in-the-dirt","html_content":"Beneath the rose pressed through concrete,\nbeneath the roots of forgotten things,\nbeneath civilization’s footsteps and heaven’s rain,\nI was forming in silence.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-diamond-in-the-dirt","title":"The Diamond in the Dirt","summary":"Beneath the rose pressed through concrete,\nbeneath the roots of forgotten things,\nbeneath civilization’s footsteps and heaven’s rain,\nI was forming in silence.","date_modified":"2026-05-14T02:27:49Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/true-love","html_content":"I’ll ride with you until the wheels fall off…\nand when they do,\nI’ll walk with you.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/true-love","title":"True Love","summary":"I’ll ride with you until the wheels fall off…\nand when they do,\nI’ll walk with you.","date_modified":"2026-05-14T00:57:41Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/five-star-women-vs-happy-meal-hoes","html_content":"“Some of you dudes really be out here cheating on five-star women with happy meal hoes… and the cold part is, it was never an upgrade — it was impulse disguised as opportunity.
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/five-star-women-vs-happy-meal-hoes","title":" Five-Star Women Vs Happy Meal Hoes ","summary":"“Some of you dudes really be out here cheating on five-star women with happy meal hoes… and the cold part is, it was never an upgrade — it was impulse disguised as opportunity.","date_modified":"2026-05-14T00:52:01Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-beauty-within-the-beast","html_content":"People are often fascinated by “the beauty within the beast.”\nThe softness hidden inside someone hardened by life.\nThe tenderness buried beneath aggression.\nThe loyalty hidden beneath rough edges.\nThe humanity concealed ...
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-beauty-within-the-beast","title":"The beauty within the beast.","summary":"People are often fascinated by “the beauty within the beast.”\nThe softness hidden inside someone hardened by life.\nThe tenderness buried beneath aggression.\nThe loyalty hidden beneath rough edges.\nThe humanity concealed ...","date_modified":"2026-05-13T00:52:29Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-encounter-that-forces-you-to-confront-your-heart","html_content":"SYFM Reflection:\nIs it possible to meet someone who feels perfect in every sense… even while you are in a committed relationship?\nThe optically correct response would be for me to tell you:\n“If you are truly committed to...
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-encounter-that-forces-you-to-confront-your-heart","title":"The Encounter That Forces You to Confront Your Heart","summary":"SYFM Reflection:\nIs it possible to meet someone who feels perfect in every sense… even while you are in a committed relationship?\nThe optically correct response would be for me to tell you:\n“If you are truly committed to...","date_modified":"2026-05-11T23:21:38Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/you-can%E2%80%99t-make-it-rain","html_content":"You Can’t Make It Rain — An SYFM Reflection
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/you-can%E2%80%99t-make-it-rain","title":"You Can’t Make It Rain ","summary":"You Can’t Make It Rain — An SYFM Reflection","date_modified":"2026-04-19T02:19:56Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/%E2%80%9Ci-do%E2%80%9D-won%E2%80%99t-undo-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","html_content":"Some of us move through relationships believing…
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/%E2%80%9Ci-do%E2%80%9D-won%E2%80%99t-undo-%E2%80%94-an-syfm-reflection","title":"“I Do” Won’t Undo — An SYFM Reflection","summary":"Some of us move through relationships believing…","date_modified":"2026-04-19T02:13:15Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/dating-oneself","html_content":"Dating Oneself — The Euphoria Within (Part I & II)\nAn SYFM Reflection\n
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/dating-oneself","title":"Dating Oneself ","summary":"Dating Oneself — The Euphoria Within (Part I & II)\nAn SYFM Reflection\n","date_modified":"2026-04-19T02:04:53Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/%E2%80%9Chow-can-i-communicate-my-needs-without-conflict%E2%80%9D","html_content":"“How can I communicate my needs without conflict?”
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/%E2%80%9Chow-can-i-communicate-my-needs-without-conflict%E2%80%9D","title":"“How can I communicate my needs without conflict?”","summary":"“How can I communicate my needs without conflict?”","date_modified":"2026-04-16T02:48:08Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/%E2%80%99im-committed-because-i%E2%80%99m-holy%E2%80%A6-not-because-i%E2%80%99m-happy","html_content":"The Bible teaches something most people don’t like to hear anymore…\nThat commitment was never built on feelings.\nIt was built on foundation.\nAnd somewhere along the way,\nwe started confusing happiness… with purpose.\nWe s...
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/%E2%80%99im-committed-because-i%E2%80%99m-holy%E2%80%A6-not-because-i%E2%80%99m-happy","title":"’Im Committed Because I’m Holy… Not Because I’m Happy","summary":"The Bible teaches something most people don’t like to hear anymore…\nThat commitment was never built on feelings.\nIt was built on foundation.\nAnd somewhere along the way,\nwe started confusing happiness… with purpose.\nWe s...","date_modified":"2026-04-16T02:48:00Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-evolution-of-intimacy","html_content":"The Evolution of Intimacy — An SYFM Reflection
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/the-evolution-of-intimacy","title":"The Evolution of Intimacy ","summary":"The Evolution of Intimacy — An SYFM Reflection","date_modified":"2026-04-16T02:47:07Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/focus-shapes-reality","html_content":"Focus Shapes Reality — An SYFM Reflection
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/focus-shapes-reality","title":"Focus Shapes Reality ","summary":"Focus Shapes Reality — An SYFM Reflection","date_modified":"2026-04-16T02:22:12Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/benefits-of-dating-oneself-%E2%80%94-part-1","html_content":"Benefits of Dating Oneself — Part 1
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/benefits-of-dating-oneself-%E2%80%94-part-1","title":"Benefits of Dating Oneself — Part 1","summary":"Benefits of Dating Oneself — Part 1","date_modified":"2026-04-15T00:05:42Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/taking-every-thought-captive","html_content":"Second Epistle to the Corinthians 10:5 reminds us:\n“We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient.”
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/taking-every-thought-captive","title":"Taking Every Thought Captive","summary":"Second Epistle to the Corinthians 10:5 reminds us:\n“We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient.”","date_modified":"2026-04-14T02:28:16Z"},{"id":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/staying-vs-leaving","html_content":"What Is My Philosophy? — An SYFM Reflection
","url":"https://syfmcoaching.com/f/staying-vs-leaving","title":"Staying vs. Leaving","summary":"What Is My Philosophy? — An SYFM Reflection","date_modified":"2026-04-11T04:22:25Z"}]}